One of the things our men are looking for is affirmation. If he knows that we find him desirable and attractive, it goes a long way in giving him confidence in other areas of his life. What drew you to him in the first place? I know he had a great sense of humor, and...

We start off the week by getting rid of one piece of “comfortable” clothing. You know the one - it could be the pair of sweats, some comfy slippers, or a college sweatshirt. Your husband may not even notice that you have done away with it. The point is you are taking...

It’s an unfair fact of life - men love a woman who can cook. This is the project where you get to put your culinary talent to use. Cook something he loves. If you’re not a cook, look for something easy. (We'll be sending out recipes once a week that any non-cook can...

By Paula Friedrichsen A new year is upon us and we can’t let this opportunity for a fresh start and new beginning pass us by. 2008 stretches out before us full of possibilities. I believe this could be the year you experience a breakthrough in your marriage. Your...

Your life is so busy. It’s hard to find a moment for yourself each day. There are days when I could go for hours, so involved in my own projects that I can totally forget to think about, or pray for, my husband. What can you put in place to remind you to think about...

Be intentional about noticing the great stuff he does. If he does a great job cooking the pasta, or playing with the kids, big or small, it doesn’t matter. It’s time to really seek out all the things he excels at. Keep the list to yourself or let him in on how...

Does your husband have to remove a driveway-full of bikes before he can park his car? Is he a neat freak who comes home to Mount Fold-me on the couch every day? Today’s focus is to remove one stressor from his life. Figure out what makes him feel a tiny sense of...

He probably won’t even notice. That’s OK - you’ll know that you wore something just for him. Maybe it’s a shirt he’s given you a compliment on, or the necklace he got for your birthday. What’s his favorite color? If you have a shirt in that color, that could be your...