by kathilipp | Dec 10, 2007 | The Husband Project |
The note below is from a friend who’s had a lot of life to deal with recently, and hasn’t started the project yet. Look at how, even before she’s begun, her attitude is changing.
Hi Kathi,
Thought you might be interested in knowing that even though I haven’t formally started my project yet that just knowing that I need to sit down and put some planning into it has caused me to be a kinder and gentler mate and more thoughtful wife. I find myself with more patience, being kinder with my words, and less demanding for his time. Interesting, huh?
MH
by kathilipp | Dec 9, 2007 | The Husband Project |
Part of taking care of our husbands, or anyone else, for that matter (mommies listen up here) is taking care of ourselves. We’ve all heard that when there is an emergency on an airplane we must first put on our own oxygen mask before doing so for our loved ones. (How can we take care of anyone when we are passed out on the airplane floor with only a bag of peanuts to cushion our fall?)
It’s impossible to make other people the top priority on your list when you don’t even show up on the page.
So your add-on project today is one that is all about YOU. Today, set aside time (even if it’s only two minutes) to go into your bathroom, find one of those bottles of lotion you received as a thank-you gift, and lay it on thick. Do your arms, your elbows, your heels; everywhere that’ll feel good and just a little bit luxurious.
While this add on is all about you, there will be double return on your time investment. You husband will get a softer, smoother, and more relaxed wife.
by kathilipp | Dec 5, 2007 | The Husband Project, tips and ideas |
Hello again, gals…
Here’s the final exchange between the three Project Managers; this from a wife who’s really given thought to her husband’s personal favorites:
“I totally agree with you M. My husband has not said anything. Sometimes I think I could drop a brick on his head and he wouldn’t notice! Maybe it is a guy thing! (more…)
by kathilipp | Dec 4, 2007 | The Husband Project |
We’re still listening in on our three Project Managers. Here’s the response from one of the Managers, who also happens to be a nursing mom:
“Hi,
Like you, S, I FULLY fell off the bandwagon last week as our routine was off due to Thanksgiving. So…I will look at week 3 and make some plans.
I LOVE that you two went on a date! J and I have a date this Friday–dinner out and a Sharks hockey game–the funny part will be me pumping in the car between. HAHAHA! But it will be good to get out and not have anyone interrupt our conversation–like, say, a 4 year old.
I’m wondering if either of your husbands have wondered what the heck is going on? Any reactions at all in that way? J has not really–which, either means I am not doing enough to get his attention OR I am a pretty nice wife most of the time? Not sure which quite yet. “
M
by kathilipp | Dec 3, 2007 | The Husband Project, tips and ideas |
Hi, ladies –
According to the feedback I’ve received on the project, many of you, if not the majority, love seeing what other women are doing to make it work for them.
I have the privilege of being in the email loop of three great and funny girls who are holding each other accountable. Here’s a rundown from S about what she had in store for her guy this week and some very cool changes she is experiencing:
“Last week I arranged for a babysitter and B and I went out on a real date!!! (more…)
by kathilipp | Nov 30, 2007 | The Husband Project |
OK, so I may be dating myself here.
Growing up, I loved Mr. Rogers. Although, I have to admit, the Neighborhood of Make Believe freaked me out.
I think what I loved about Mr. Rogers was his gentle attitude; and if you ask me what I remember most about the show, it would definitely be his “getting home” routine.
I loved his routine of changing from his work clothes into his “at home” duds. His transition each day marked the end of one part of his day and the beginning of the more relaxing, comfortable part.
There’s something inside our husband that craves that transition. Most men need some way to signal the end of work and the beginning of home — laying down for a little bit, reading a magazine, going to their “cave,” or yes, by changing into their favorite light blue cardigan.
Find a way to build that time into his day.
