A big hello to all our New Project Managers from First Presbyterian Church in Salinas and St. Paul's Lutheran Church in Tracy. Just a reminder - start on any day you want - you are not behind! Feel free to e-mail any questions to us at kathi@thehusbandproject.org .

Physical touch is vital to relaxation. I have some friends whose husbands enjoy back massages. Some are more into sheet thread-counts.Find something that will help your husband relax. New pillows, massage lotions…your choice. Make it something that both of you will...

Remember when you were dating, how you couldn’t wait for his phone call? Just the sound of his voice made your heart beat a little faster. Then real life happens. You have jobs, kids, rent or a mortgage, laundry to fold and lasagna to bake. It’s been a long time since...

It’s time to think about food, glorious food. My husband loves a candy called Cherry Sours. They’re little red sugar balls that he’s in love with. To me, they taste like the stuff your dentist uses to rinse out your mouth after a painful cleaning. So, I try to find...

It’s time to talk about sex, ladies. Your man needs and wants sex, probably more than you do. If a man feels like he’s desirable to you, the love of his life, the other areas that he may be struggling in (work, parenting, etc.) seem somehow more manageable. One time...

As cliché as it may sound, our husbands want to be our heroes. More than they want to know we love them, they want to know we respect them. They need to know they’re never the butt of our jokes; that, instead, they’re the go-to-guy in every story we tell. Step One:...

Most guys don’t spend a lot of time hanging out with their buddies-you are their buddy. They married you to have a built in friend to do those things with (the fact that the two of you can have sex is definitely a bonus as well…) My husband loves to go to the woods,...