#122 Motherhood can be Wonderful

#122 Motherhood can be Wonderful

What is one word you would use to describe your motherhood?

Kathi said overwhelming.  Erin said chaotic.  Leslie Ludy, our guest, said neither have to be part of your parenting story.  Leslie put off having kids for a long time as she feared all the horror stories.  She didn’t want to lose the wonderful love story that she had built by adding kids to the mix.  But when her kids came, life may not have been simple (her oldest son had acid reflux) but it was wonderful. In this podcast, she tells women how they can:

  • gather their community,
  • change their attitudes,
  • and realize God is building them,

as they partake in the joyous, exciting and sometimes crazy ride that is motherhood.

When you are feeling overwhelmed as a mom, what is one thing you do to get yourself back on track? Share a tip below for your chance to win a book from Set Apart Motherhood.

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Meet Our Guest

Leslie Ludy

Leslie Ludy

Leslie Ludy is a bestselling author and speaker with a passion for helping women become setapart for Christ. She and her husband, Eric, have published twenty books with well over a million copies in print and translations in over a dozen languages, including When God Writes Your Love Story, Authentic Beauty, and Set Apart Femininity. Leslie is the founder and director of Set Apart Girl®, an international ministry that provides biblical encouragement and training for Christian women. She and Eric have four children at home, with two more on the way soon from Haiti! The Ludy family lives in Colorado.

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#121 The Beautiful Mess and the Messy Beautiful of Marriage

Marriage is both messy and beautiful.

This week’s guest, Darlene Schacht, author of Messy Beautiful Love and the Time Warp Wife blog, shares with us her wise thoughts on marriage and how women in any messy beautiful marriage can:

• Handle the big stressors in marriage so she can grow stronger and closer to both, each other and God.
• Pray for her husband and her marriage in an intentional and meaningful way.
• Find her joy from God and not from her husband.
• Build a marriage that’s not 50-50. (Which, according to Darlene isn’t a good thing.)

Listen in, and then download Darlene’s free printable prayer cards. Plus, tell us the biggest stressor in your marriage in the comments below and you’ll be entered to win a copy of Darlene’s new book, Messy Beautiful Love.

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These colourful prayer cards are an ideal companion to the book, and a good reminder to pray over your marriage each day. This high resolution file is print ready, offering you 31 prayer cards in total.

For a handy little booklet, print them on glossy card stock, hole punch each one, and attach them to a binder ring.

Click here to download.

Meet Our Guest

Darlene Schacht

Darlene Schacht

Darlene Schacht is the original founder of Christian Women Online Magazine and The Internet Café Devotions and writes the popular blog Time-Warp Wife. She is coauthor of Candace Cameron Bure’sNew York Time’s best-selling book, Reshaping It All: Motivation for Physical and Spiritual Fitness. Darlene has been married to Michael Schacht for more than 25 years. They have four children.

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#120 Cloverdayle’s Rachel Hamar Talks Balance & Creativity

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a real, live rock star?

The lights, the cameras, the music, the swarming fans… we got a little star struck just imagining it as we sat down with Rachel Hamar, one part of the top-rated country duo Cloverdayle. And while Rachel has shared a stage with music legends like Kenny Chesney, Lady Antebellum, Eric Church and Jason Aldean, Rachel was totally willing to get down-to-earth with us as she filled us in on:

  •  How she manages to keep her marriage strong when she lives and works with her adorable rock-star husband Chad.
  •  How she finds balance in a crazy schedule (and even finds time to go to the gym!)
  •  How she finds the creative space to write songs (and what she does when she comes up with a great song line in the middle of the grocery store).
  •  How we as women can pursue or own big dreams, even when life makes it seem impossible.

Listen in, and then download a free copy of Cloverdayle’s new song “Call Me Crazy” and get inspired to live your own crazy dream.

 

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Meet Our Guest

Rachel Hamar

Rachel Hamar

Rachel Hamar is the Nashville-based, Oregon-grown lead singer of the duo Cloverdayle.  Launched in 2008 with her husband of 15 years, Cloverdayle has shared the stage with many industry heavyweights including Kenny Chesney, Lady Antebellum and Jason Aldean.  Rachel is also an avid songwriter and co-creator/teacher for Your Song Interactive Online Music School.  When she’s not eating, breathing, dreaming music (which is almost never), Rachel loves road trips, creating recipes in the kitchen, making to-do lists and procrastinating on said to-do lists.

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#119 Treating Ourselves Like a Friend Rather than a Foe

Have you ever taken a selfie? Of your butt?

That’s just what Leeana Tankersley, author of Breathing Room, did so of course, that’s the first thing that Kathi and Erin ask her about. Why did she take a picture of her butt and how did she live to tell about it?

Kathi and Erin fell in love with Leeana from the first moments of the interview. Leeana gets real. Fast. (And you know how we love that around here.) She talks about how to lovingly come alongside ourselves as a good friend would, and be compassionate when we need it the most.

Leeana talks about:

• How Pinterest is changing how we feel about ourselves, and others.

• How the 12-step program Emotions Anonymous changed her life.

• How as moms we can give ourselves permission to “begin again” with our kids.

Win a copy of Leeana’s book, Breathing Room! For your chance to win, leave a comment below about something in your life that you feel powerless in the face of- your anonymous.

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For more info on 12 Step that Leeana talked about, check out Emotions Anonymous.

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Take a sneak peek into Breathing Room: Letting Go so You Can Fully Live with this complimentary excerpt from Leeana. Click here. 

 

Meet Our Guest

Leeana Tankersley

Leeana Tankersley

Leeana Tankersley is the author of Breathing Room and Found Art. She and her Navy SEAL husband, Steve, are currently stationed in San Diego, California, with their three children: Luke (5), Lane (5), and Elle (2). Leeana writes about living from the spacious place on her blog, www.leeanatankersley.com.

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#118 Helping Our Kids Build Healthy Relationships with Other Kids

Have you ever felt ashamed at the playground? Have you worried that your kids are the only ones playing Ninja Warrior while the others swing peacefully? Have you felt like you just can’t measure up as a mom? This week, Kathi and Erin discuss the reaction to Erin’s new blog post entitled “I’m Worried About Our Girls” and the ways that parents can help their kids build strong, healthy relationships with other kids.

Knowing that every mom has felt shame, worry and stress about playground behavior– and that every mom earnestly seeks what’s best for their children– we openly discuss:

* How little girls can respond to wild boys on a playground.

* The difference between a dangerous situation and a situation that a child can take care of on his or her own.

* How moms can get rid of the shame they feel when their children misbehave.

* How to communicate to our kids that God created both genders lovingly and intentionally– and that neither is inherently “good” or “bad.”

Listen in and then share your own playground experiences in the comments below. One winner will get his or her choice of one of Erin’s books! Plus, check out the “Download” section below to get Erin’s playground toolkit for girls.

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There’s a better alternative than whining and tattling on the playground for our girls. This Toolkit is a great start in helping our girl’s use their own words in finding solutions to everyday problems on the playground.

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Meet Our Guest

Erin MacPherson

Erin MacPherson

Erin MacPherson lives in Austin, Texas with her husband Cameron, her sons Joey and Will and her daughter Kate. She is the author of “The Christian Mama’s Guide Series“, a staff writer for Dun & Bradstreet and a freelancer for publications like Thriving Family Magazine, MOPS MomSense, FamilyLife Magazine, Daily Guideposts and BEMag. She blogs about her life, her kids and her faith at ChristianMamasGuide.com.

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#117 Living our Lives as a Work of Art

Do you see yourself as God’s masterpiece? Do you live as a piece of art? Does the entire concept of living as a work of art totally intimidate you?

Emily Freeman, author of A Million Little Ways, joins us on the podcast and really makes the concept of living as a work of art real for all of us, even those of us that aren’t necessarily “artists” in the traditional sense. Whether your a mathematician or a painter, God is the creator and we were made in His image. Emily inspires us to show up and be ourselves wherever God has put us and in whatever stage we are living. In the podcast we discuss:

  • the true definition of an artist
  • why it’s important to see ourselves and the people around us as God’s masterpieces
  • how to identify tiny little ways we can be artists in our day-to-day lives

To win a copy of Emily’s book for you and a friend, leave a comment below on how you are going to be present for the benefit of other’s and only for God’s glory this week.

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* We also discussed Emily’s Art Course. Sign-up for Emily’s Art Course (or Life Course!) here.

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Meet Our Guest

Emily Freeman

Emily Freeman

Emily P. Freeman is the author of three books, including her most recent release A Million Little Ways: Uncover the Art You Were Made to LiveShe is also the co-creator of Hope*ologie, a membership site that offers a monthly collection of hope in the areas we need it most – home, family, and soul. Emily extends a daily-ish invitation for women to create space for their soul to breathe on her blog, Chatting at the Sky. She and her husband John live in North Carolina with their three children.